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Cats don't need to be socialized like dogs. They are generally fine being the only cat in a family, especially if their humans give them lots of attention and playtime, writes Cathy M. Rosenthal.
Dear Cathy: I have an indoor cat under a year old. Can you tell me how I can and where to socialize her? I'm a 62-year-old man. It's just her and me in a studio apartment. I work nights. I'm not supposed to bring her to my job. I do not have any other pets. I don't want her to be alone without any recreation. I let her sit in the hall. She won't let me put the harness or leash on her. Otherwise, I would walk her. I took her out in a Sherpa several times and walked her around town. I have toys for her and play with her a bit. What else can I do? — Wayne, Queens, New York
Dear Wayne: Cats don't need to be socialized like dogs. They are generally fine being the only cat in a family, especially if their humans give them lots of attention and playtime. You don't have to take her anywhere, but walking her around town in a Sherpa carrier with its see-through mesh sides is great if she enjoys it.
I don't recommend leaving her in the hallway of your apartment building, though. You never know how passersby might scare or mistreat her. Instead, keep her in your apartment, and expand her environmental stimulation there. Get her a window hammock, which she can nap in or enjoy the view. Get a tall scratching post for her to climb and scratch on. Leave the television on a nature channel when you're at work. Buy toys — like a laser pointer, feather dancer or reel-type fishing toy — that encourage her to run and pounce. Consider buying food dishes that you can program to turn on or open automatically, which might give her something to look forward to when you are at work.
In addition, play with her three times a day for 10 minutes each time. If you do all this, she should be a very happy and content feline.
Dear Cathy: You recently had a letter about a dog who was afraid of going into the house. It's possible there is a noise in the house that the dog can hear but humans cannot. As you probably know, dogs can hear frequency ranges that are out of the human range.
I suggest turning off the main power circuit breaker to the home and seeing if the dog's behavior changes. If so, turn one circuit breaker on at a time, and watch the dog's reaction. It can be a problem with a piece of electronic equipment, an appliance or possibly an ultrasonic rodent-repelling device, causing the dog to hear an alarming sound. — Joe, East Haddam, Connecticut
Dear Joe: The circuit-breaker test is a good idea. Everything is so eerily quiet when the power goes off in a house. So, it couldn't hurt to switch everything off and back on again to see how a dog reacts.
As for rodent-repelling ultrasonic devices, researchers say most dogs won't be affected by their sound. Dogs can hear the sound, they say, but their reaction would likely be more curious about where the sound is coming from than fearful of the sound itself.
However, having said that, we all know most dogs are not bothered by thunderstorms, yet some dogs totally freak out. So, it's a legitimate consideration. If a pet parent has one in the home, they can turn it off to see if the dog relaxes. If he does, the pet parent would need an alternative approach to keeping rodents out of the house.
Dear Cathy: Regarding the dog who was scared of going into the house, has the family considered their choice of cleaning products? A dog's olfactory and tactile perceptions are much better than ours. Perhaps the dog's human needs to clean their home without chemicals. Baking soda and vinegar are natural. Training is necessary, but the actions are moot if the home is not environmentally safe. — Meg, Parksville, New York
Dear Meg: Choosing natural products to clean with is good for both pets and people. But even with more robust products, it seems like the dog's fear would subside as the odor dissipated, especially a day or two after cleaning. But I like the way you think.
Certainly, if a dog or cat is afraid of something, we can't assume it's from something obvious. It's great that you (and several other of my readers) are trying to understand a dog's fear from his or her unique sensory perspective and come up with out-of-the-box ideas on how to resolve it.
Cathy M. Rosenthal is a longtime animal advocate, author, columnist and pet expert who has more than 25 years in the animal welfare field. Send your pet questions, stories and tips to cathy@petpundit.com. Please include your name, city, and state. You can follow her @cathymrosenthal.
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Cats don't need to be socialized like dogs. They are generally fine being the only cat in a family, especially if their humans give them lots of attention and playtime, writes Cathy M. Rosenthal.
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